I’ve read a lot about how perfect INTJs are, however, nothing is always smooth sailing in relationships. Dating an INTJ requires you to tell that person what you need/want, and not to play stupid games. INTJ take their commitments seriously and are intelligent individuals who strive to always be their best, and be moving in a positive direction.
Are you tired that your feelings get hurt? Nobody understands that your default is thinking/feeling? How to deal with their constant quest to improve everything?
Sometimes is difficult to explian that when talking to INTJ, first state your point, then elaborate. Like those essays you had to write in high school- First paragraph is the thesis statement, the rest of the essay is backing up your statement. Now imagine that in dating and relationships, it’s not the same game rules.
How to avoid the main difficults in relationships (with communication or otherwise)? Here we can show you how to fix the most important problems we have encountered in relationships.
“To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive – to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before.” — Rollo May